If you’re a man, then there is little more vital, or maddening, as dating ladies. To a fellow, the concept of dating women is one of the most important things we can do but it is this whole idea of trying to make women happy that gets us all caught in a vicious circle. Ladies know that blokes find it important to be date, so when ladies eventually get a fellow, instead of make him feel wanted and required in her life, she makes a decision to push buttons and test bounds. My opinion is that it’s mandatory to learn all you can about somebody when you’re dating them, but there are some things that blokes need left alone that girls won’t leave alone in any way.
I have seen guys that have the whole idea of dating women fully in hand and I’ll tell it’s all about self image. A guy with high self-esteem is going to be able to date many women and then let each woman he dates know that he is or is not looking for a full time mate and they may or may not be the one. The rest of us, the guys with little or no self-esteem who make up the other 95% of the male population, treat every woman like she is that last one that will have an interest in us and are always genuinely surprised, in the course of dating women, when we find one that actually does care about us. Men, for all of the machismo we try and project, are really fragile when it comes to dating women.
A tight dress, hair done up right, make up in all of the right places and some men will sign over the deed to their place to a lady. That makes it hard for the remainder of us that do have a little self confidence and would prefer not to give away our estate to each girl we elect to date to challenge. But on the other hand the fellows that give everything away to each girl they date wind up with nothing in an enormous hurry and that of course includes no cash, no vehicle, and no girl. It is sort of sorrowful, truly, nevertheless it still is only one of those things that tips the balance of power in the dating game decidedly to the female side.
There is a mechanism in most men and women that make men the hunter and women the prize and while many women would prefer to not look at it that way that is the way most men prefer to act. We will do stupid things to attract women and most of them never work. All that it truly takes is some confidence and a ton of cash … like an entire Jaguar full of money.